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3 steps to make your New Year’s Resolutions a New Year’s Reality

Saturday, January 2nd, 2010

By Success Expert and Motivational Speaker, Sharmen Lane







Hello World and Happy New Year!

No matter how you rang in the new year, there is no better time than the first day of the year to get started on making this an unforgettable, unstoppable year.

Most people set New Years Resolutions on New Years Eve, unfortunately they are quick to be forgotten by the end of the month… if it takes that long. What can you do to make this year different?  Here are a few tools and tips to give you the edge and make what you want happen.

1. Write your goal down. Don’t just say "I’m going to do blank."  Say, "I’m DOING blank."

2. Tell everyone you know.  Make a list starting right now of all the people you can share your goal with. Then call, email, text, twitter or whatever else you want but tell anyone and everyone you know about what you are DOING!

3. Create a vision board.  I do this every New Year’s Eve and now have vision board parties on New’s Year’s.  Cut out pictures of what you want and post them where you can see them often.  If you want to be an author, cut out a book cover and put your name and face on it.  If you want a lean, 10% body fat, size 8 body, or 34 inch waist, cut out a picture and put your face on it.  Make it real and see it so you can be it!

There you go, three simple steps to making what you want, real.  Remember, you have to make a plan and take action and these first three steps will start your journey.

Have an extraordinary year! Now get to it!

For more information visit ww.sharspeaks.com or email shar@sharspeaks.com. Also keep an eye out for my latest book, Giving You the WOW and the HOW, due out in early 2010!

 

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Successfully Single

Wednesday, June 3rd, 2009

by Sales and Success Speaker Sharmen Lane

I know more people today than ever before that are looking for that special someone.  Well if you want to meet the man or woman of your dreams then you need to put yourself out there. You need to take that NO FEAR approach to dating. 

No fear rule #1. Dont take anything personally!  Dating is a numbers game, just like sales.  I get excited every time I have a bad date because I believe dates are like sales calls… it takes 10 no’s to get a yes.  It takes 10 bad, to get a good. 
 
No fear rule #2- Have no fear.  Who cares if you get rejected?!? I believe there are two types of fear.  Real fear and fake fear.  Real fear can cause you physical harm or death. Fake fear doesnt, it only exists in your head.  I once approached a man and said, "Excuse me, but I couldnt help but over hear your conversation and I find you intriguing.  You seem like someone I would like to get to know better."  I reached out to give him my business card and he looked me up and down and said "Sorry I only date beautiful women."  I turned and went back to my girlfriend and said "YES! One more down, only 3 more to go!" 
 
I have these and many other philosophies in my book, The 7 Secrets to Create Your Fate.  I give you the tools, tips and strategies to create the life you want.  
 
Have no fear, success is near!

 

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