Archive for the ‘self improvement’ Category

Successfully Single

Wednesday, June 3rd, 2009

by Sales and Success Speaker Sharmen Lane

I know more people today than ever before that are looking for that special someone.  Well if you want to meet the man or woman of your dreams then you need to put yourself out there. You need to take that NO FEAR approach to dating. 

No fear rule #1. Dont take anything personally!  Dating is a numbers game, just like sales.  I get excited every time I have a bad date because I believe dates are like sales calls… it takes 10 no’s to get a yes.  It takes 10 bad, to get a good. 
 
No fear rule #2- Have no fear.  Who cares if you get rejected?!? I believe there are two types of fear.  Real fear and fake fear.  Real fear can cause you physical harm or death. Fake fear doesnt, it only exists in your head.  I once approached a man and said, "Excuse me, but I couldnt help but over hear your conversation and I find you intriguing.  You seem like someone I would like to get to know better."  I reached out to give him my business card and he looked me up and down and said "Sorry I only date beautiful women."  I turned and went back to my girlfriend and said "YES! One more down, only 3 more to go!" 
 
I have these and many other philosophies in my book, The 7 Secrets to Create Your Fate.  I give you the tools, tips and strategies to create the life you want.  
 
Have no fear, success is near!

 

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Sharmen Lane can take you from Now to Wow

Monday, May 18th, 2009

Sharmen Lane can take you from Now to Wow. Listen to this to find out how to empower yourself.

 

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Sharmen Lane is interviewed by Quinn from Blog Talk Radio

Sunday, May 10th, 2009

 

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Professional Motivational Speaker Sharmen Lane Live in NY

Wednesday, April 22nd, 2009

 

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The Learning Annex presents: GPS To Success with Sharmen Lane!

Monday, April 20th, 2009

 

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EmPOWER Yourself to Achieve ANYTHING!

Tuesday, April 14th, 2009

 

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What Do You Do

Sunday, March 29th, 2009

As an entrepreneur or business owner, you should be able to answer the question “What do you do” quickly and succinctly and in a way that makes the listener say, “Wow, I gotta get me some of that?” When someone asks me what I do, I instantly know the answer.  I have a company that creates change by providing the process, tools, and action plans to achieve success.  I inspire people to find their passion, Motivate them to take action Empower them to go from the NOW to WOW.

What do you say when someone asks you what you do?  Most people answer in one of three ways.

1) By title

2) By product or service

3) By concept and/or outcome

If you can’t communicate and articulate what you do, why would anyone buy or use your product?  Most people answer by their title.  The problem here is that almost everyone has some preconceived notion about that title.  You, unfortunately, will have no idea if their notion is a good or bad one until it’s perhaps too late.  Statistics say that 50% of the marketplace will have had a negative experience with a competitor with the same title.

When you identify yourself by your product or service you are likely to be putting yourself right next to your competition.  You don’t want to be in the middle of your competition, you want to set yourself apart from the competition.

This is why identifying what you do by concept is the best choice.  You are immediately telling others when happens when a customer uses your product or service.  You are letting others know what to expect when they work with you.

If you struggle with this ask yourself, what is the outcome I want my customers to get when they use me or my product?  Also, you can ask yourself, what problem do I solve and for what person or group?

Practice a couple of different versions and see which one gets you the best results.  Ask your friends, family and other entrepreneurs to see which gets the best reaction.  When you have it down, take it on the road and see how quickly your business begins to grow.

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To Believe or Not to Believe

Thursday, March 26th, 2009

There’s so much information and so many perspectives about what is going on in today’s economy that it’s hard to know what to believe and what not to believe.

Fact, the stock market has been dropping.  Fact, unemployment has been increasing. Fact, real estate values have been decreasing. Final fact, the US banking system is on the verge of implosion (according to US News James Pethokoukis, Sunday, March 1, 2009 article titled. How to Handle Your Job and Finances If There’s a (Yikes!) Depression) With all those facts, it’s a little difficult to stay positive and believe financial abundance is possible.

However, there are companies, organizations and individuals that are soaring in this sad economy.  I say you have two choices.  Believe what you hear in the masses and the media or believe that you and your company can be one of the ones to excel.
There are several companies or types of companies that are expected to do well this year despite the economy. As a matter of fact, sometimes small business can be the big idea! If you are looking to start your own business, or just do something on the side, here are some ideas that are doing well and are expected to continue.

1. Athletic Trainer
2. Career Counselor
3. Computer Services
4. Energy Auditing
5. Export Manager
6. Financial Adviser
7. Freelance Web Writer
8. Going Global Firm
9. Higher Education Services
10. Home Healthcare
11. Online Art Dealer
12. Online Consignment
13. Online Farmers’ Market
14. Outsourcing Manager
15. Tutor

Take your economy into your own hands. Believe it’s possible to shine in the darkness and your future will be very bright.
 

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Three C’s to Success

Tuesday, March 24th, 2009

Ever wonder why some people seem to get what they want easily and effortlessly?  There are some tried and true techniques to getting what you want.  This process is what I call the 3 C’s to Succcess.

 

#1 Commit.  Are you committed to the outcome?  What is the desired result that you are looking for ?  If you aren’t clear about what you are looking to achieve you certainly aren’t committed to it.

 

Think of a commitment like a legal binding agreement.  If you sign on the dotted line and are legally bound, are you likely to back out or not fulfill your end of the agreement? Probably not.  If you take that approach to any goal you are setting you are 90% there.  If you are committed to losing weight and sign a contract saying you will weigh ten pounds less than you do now at the end of 60 days, or there will be a $10,000 fine, do you think you will find a way to be ten pounds less?  My guess is yes.  Why does there need to be a $10K fine?  Simply view your goal as a contract, even if it’s only with yourself.  Once you get committed the rest is downhill.

 

#2 Communicate.  People who are committed to reaching their goal, share that goal with others.  The tell anyone who will listen. They would shout it from the rooftops and take out a full page ad in the New York Times.  Why is that?  Because the more people you tell, the more real it becomes. If you tell one person about your goal and the person next to you tells 100 people, who has more at stake?  Obviously, the person who told more people has more to lose.  So the more ways you communicate (write, read, talk, listen, etc) and the more you communicate it to, the closer you will be to your goal.

 

#3 Create.  Once you have decided that you are truly committed to your goal, and you have written it down and read it out loud, and shared it with others all you have to do now is take action .  This is the easiest of the three steps.  It’s easy to do when you are committed and have told everyone you know about what you are working towards. The most important thing is to “do”.  Do something that is actively working towards your goal every day. Before you know it, you will have what you want and will have created your dream to make it a reality.

 

Follow the 3 C’s to Success.  It’s a simple tried and true process that will help you reach your desired goal faster and easier than you ever thought possible.

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Make a Plan

Monday, March 23rd, 2009

No matter what you do in life, or work, if you want to ensure success the best possible way to do that is to make a plan. The second thing to do is execute on it. 

You may have the best idea, invention, or product if you don’t make a plan on how you are going to promote, sell, market, advertise etc., then you likely won’t go very far.  I once read a quote by someone that said, “If you fly by the seat of your pants, you better expect turbulence.”  Basically, you want to have a plan, or it could be a very bumpy ride.

Planning is generally the one step that most people miss when it comes to goals or marketing.  First you need to know the end result.  Once you know what you are ultimately looking to achieve then you need to come up with the step by step instructions or directions to make that goal happen. 

Think about it like traveling.   If you are driving to a specific location a hundred or even a thousand miles away for that matter, and you have never been there before, you’re not going to get in your car, turn on the ignition and just start driving are you?  I doubt it.  You’re going to look at a map, go online or at least have a GPS device to tell you which route to take.  The GPS or the directions you get are going to tell you what to do and when to do it.  That is MAP’ing, Making A Plan.

When putting together your plan for success, “begin with the end in mind,” as Stephen Covey’s 7 Habits of Highly Effective People would say.  Now that you know what the end result is, write down a step by step action plan that will lead you to your destination in small daily simple steps.  If you are looking to accomplish your goal in one year, think of 12 big steps that need to be done. Then put them in order from start to finish.  Put the first item on your calendar for the next month.  Then fill in each of the remaining 11 steps for the following 11 months.  This way each and every month you are doing the things necessary to reach your goal in the timeframe that you want. 

After you have completed your monthly things to do list you will want to go back and do the same thing again but dice it up a little more.  Now look over each month’s item and break it down into four steps, one for each week of the month. Then, for each week’s item, break it down into seven steps, one thing you can do every day. 

That’s it.  That’s all there is to planning.  Most people are so excited about their goal that one of two things happen.  Either the how to do it becomes so daunting that they take no action and forget about the goal altogether.  Or, they hit the ground running and end up missing several important steps along the way which can turn out to be detrimental.  Yes making a plan does take time. However, if you take the time to think it through from the beginning you will already have avoided roadblocks and obstacles ahead of time.  It’s somewhat similar to building a house.  You can put the studs up first so you can see immediate results.  However, sooner or later that house will come crumbling down without a strong foundation, and you will have to start all over again.  And that can be a timely and expensive mistake. 

So, do yourself a favor and make a plan to make your goals happen.  It will save you time and money in the long run and likely get you to where you want to be faster.

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