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By Success Expert and Radio Host, Sharmen Lane

Former pitcher for the Detroit Tigers AAA minor league baseball team, Sean Buller, was injured in 2001 before getting picked up by the majors and was told he would never pitch again. After surgery and months of physical therapy he tried out for the Boston Red Sox where he re-injured his shoulder and was again told by doctors his pitching career was over. On June 14^{th 2007}, Sean tried out for the Long Beach Armada, an Independent Baseball team in the Golden League where other professional players like Rickey Henderson, Jose Canseco, and Alex Arias have played. Today Sean is pitching again. Overcoming injury, obstacles, and medical prognosis Sean clearly knows how perseverance pays!

 

 Perseverance Pays [56:32m]: Play Now | Play in Popup | Download

by Success Expert Sharmen Lane

Every choice we make has a consequence. Some will be good, some bad and other indifferent. Sometimes your choices will all be awful, but you still have a choice.  Not making a choice is making a choice. C. Wright Mills said, "Freedom is, first of all, the chance to formulate the available choices, to argue over them — and then, the opportunity to choose.  Wayne Dyer says, "Be miserable. Or motivate yourself.  Whatever has to be done, it’s always your choice." 

 

 Choices and Consequences [56:53m]: Play Now | Play in Popup | Download

by Personal Growth Expert Sharmen Lane

By Success Expert Sharmen Lane, Motivational Speaker and Self Help Author.

We all have bad days. So I have written a little poem to pick you up when you are feeling blue.  I hope it puts a little spring in your step like it does for me.

by Success Expert Sharmen Lane~ Motivational Speaker and Author

Today we are discussing a whole new way of looking at people, places and things and how to not take them personally. A great resource for this topic is the book titled "The Four Agreements"  by Don Miguel Ruiz.  As all things good, bad or indifferent have nothing to do with you. In the big scheme of things it’s rarely about us. The good we like to think are personal and that’s ok, but the bad things that don’t feel so good well wouldn’t it be nice if we could just dispose of them as if they never happened? Well, we can’t make them not happen, but we can help you change your perception so they don’t feel as bad!

 

 It's Not Personal [54:02m]: Play Now | Play in Popup | Download

By Success Expert Sharmen Lane

The topic of todays show is Always do your best, but understand that your best today will be different than your best was yesterday or will be tomorrow. But always do your best. People who are successful always give everything their best effort. There’s no half way. People like Michael Jordan lived by that philosophy.  He was known for saying things like "I’ve always believed that if you put in the work, the results will come. I don’t do things half-heartedly. Because I know if I do, then I can expect half-hearted results."

If you do something with half effort you had better expect half results. You will only get out what you put in. The way to create or manifest what you want it is to give it your best every time. 

 

 Manifest Your Best [54:11m]: Play Now | Play in Popup | Download

By Success Expert Sharmen Lane

 

 What You Believe is What You'll Receive [55:01m]: Play Now | Play in Popup | Download

by Success Expert Sharmen Lane

Does getting what you want have to be difficult?  Maybe.   Maybe not.  What if there is a way, a process, to help you get what you want?

I call this the power process.  It takes you from where you are to where you want to be in four simple steps.

Step One. Define your current reality.  Where are you right now? All emotion, logistics, facts and feelings, write them down.  Be specific.  For example, “I hate my life, everything about it, I hate.  I’m broke, I’m tired, I’m cranky, I’m alone and I feel lost, I feel old, I feel ugly.  I don’t know what to do I just know that this is not what I want."  Write down all the details of your life that you are currently unhappy with.

Step Two. Identify what you do want.  Keeping emotion out of it just write down all the things you want to be, do or have.  If you could write the book describing your perfect life what would it look like? What things would you have? Where would you go? What would you do?  This is your blank slate and you can draw the picture of the life you want.

Step Three.  In a one line clear, concise statement describe your life as in step two.  Keep it short, clear and to the point. Something like “I am a happy, relaxed and comfortable person earning an income of at least $10K per month, and good things simply flow to me with ease”

Step Four. Say or write “I emotionally accept and willingly allow the reality that (insert your one line description here, as in step 3).

This four step process will identify what you are unhappy with, clarify what you want in its place, make the statement to the universe and allow you to do determine if you are truly willing and ready to accept it.

I have used this process thousands of times in my life and have seen it work miracles in others lives as well.  Don’t delay, start today to go from where you are now to WoW!

For more information visit www.sharspeaks.com

There are only two fears that exist. Real fears and fake fears. Most of us have fears about things that aren’t even real. Fear of failure, fear of rejection, fear of success, etc. These are not real fears. They are imaginary things we make up in our heads about what would happen if.  In this episode you are given the tools to say farewell to fear!

 

 Farewell to Fear [55:03m]: Play Now | Play in Popup | Download

By Success Expert, Sharmen Lane

Stay in the moment. Stress is created by reflection or projection. This moment is the only one that matters. Success is Simple. Use your time wisely by maximizing and utilizing every possible moment to work towards your goal. Now is how to get what you want and live stress free.

 

 Lessin Your Stressin [55:21m]: Play Now | Play in Popup | Download